(Yes, Even If You’re Thinking “Meh, I Don’t Need That Part Captured”)
Before the vows. Before the hugs. And before you even step into your dress or fix your tie—there’s the quiet chaos of getting ready.
Wedding getting ready photos capture the part of your day that’s full of anticipation, nerves, hype music, inside jokes, champagne spills, and the people who helped shape who you are leading up to this moment.
P.s. Go ahead and skip to 10 Unique Ways to “Get Ready” For Your Wedding or Elopement
They’re not about staged robe pics (unless that’s your thing)—they’re about real, unfiltered energy. Your sibling helping you button up. Your best friend trying not to cry. And your grandma sneaking you a tissue and a pep talk. These are the real moments that kick everything off.
What Are Wedding Getting Ready Photos?
Let me say it louder for the people in the back: getting ready photos aren’t just about aesthetics—they’re about emotion.
You’re surrounded by the people who helped build the foundation of who you are. You wouldn’t be you without them. That alone makes these moments worth remembering.
Whether you’re doing a first look or saving the reveal for the aisle, this part of the day is the calm (or total chaos) before the big moment. And in weddings especially—where you’ve spent so much time planning and prepping—this is the point where everything starts to feel real.
Even better? It’s usually just…fun. Laughter, music, little pockets of chaos. And here’s what I’ve found:
Most couples don’t think they need getting ready photos… until they get them back. Then they’re like—wait, these are some of my favorite ones.
But… What About Elopement Getting Ready Photos?
Glad you asked—because I freaking love this part of elopement days too.
Elopement getting ready moments hit differently. They’re slower, sweeter, quieter. Maybe it’s just you two in a cool Airbnb, maybe a dog or two, and maybe some snow falling outside. You’re zipping up boots, sipping coffee, and just soaking it all in together before the big adventure.
That slow start to the day makes the gallery feel like a full story.
It’s also a grounding moment—a chance to be present before the hike, boat ride, cliff vows, or whatever else you’ve got planned. And honestly? Starting slow makes the epic parts feel even more epic.
10 Unique Ways to “Get Ready” For Your Wedding or Elopement
Let’s kill the myth that getting ready = hair and makeup in a beige hotel room.
You get to decide what this part of the day looks like. That’s kind of the whole point.
And I think that’s why some couples go, “Why would I want photos of this part?”
But once you see your people dancing around to music, sipping mimosas, or helping you put on your boots—you’ll get it.
Some fun, non-traditional ways couples have done it:
- A morning hike with your dog
- Breakfast + coffee in the kitchen with your people
- Yoga or a breathwork sesh before the day starts
- Writing your vows in a journal
- A chaotic Uno battle with your wedding party
- Champagne and throwback hits on full blast
- Making pancakes in your Airbnb
- Jumping in a lake (yep, pre-ceremony)
- Skiing down a mountain post-glam (looking at you, Suzanne + Joe)
- Chilling solo with your playlist and a minute to breathe
Bottom line? There’s no wrong way to “get ready.” Just make sure it reflects you. And if you’re looking for ideas, you’ll love this blog: 11 Non-Traditional Ideas for your wedding/elopement!
Why Wedding Getting Ready Photos Are Worth It
These photos aren’t about being perfectly posed or checking off some Pinterest box.
They’re about remembering what the day felt like.
From the nerves to the laughs to the “holy sh*t, this is really happening”* moment.
Whether you’re surrounded by your people or having a quiet morning with your person, this is a part of your story worth remembering.
Want help figuring out your wedding or elopement timeline (including when to start coverage)?
I’m happy to help you build a wedding or elopement timeline that works with whatever kind of morning you want—wild, calm, or somewhere in between. Reach out here!
P.S. I have a blog all about wedding timelines, here!
Common FAQ’S For Wedding Getting Ready Photos
Q: How much time do you need for getting ready photos?
Usually 1–2 hours is perfect. That gives us time for a few details, candid moments, and all the fun/chaos before things kick off.
Q: Do I need a Pinterest-perfect getting ready space?
Nope. I’ll work with whatever space you’ve got. Natural light, meaningful items, and real people go a long way. (And honestly, I love the messy corners and real-life stuff.)
Q: Should my partner and I get ready together or separately?
Up to you. Some couples love a shared morning, others want the surprise moment later. Both are beautiful, both can be meaningful. I’ve photographed both a ton.
Q: What kind of photos will I get?
A mix of candids, quiet moments, little details, and whatever else shows up. If something’s important to you—let’s talk about it and make it happen.
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New Hampshire Wedding & Elopement Photographer | Erica Warren
Hey, I’m Erica—a New Hampshire elopement photographer who doesn’t just tag along for the ride. I’ll help plan your timeline, figure out the logistics, and yeah—I’ll ride the gondola with your bouquet in one hand and my camera in the other. I’m here to make the whole experience feel fun, easy, and fully yours.
If you’re dreaming of a White Mountains elopement that’s equal parts epic and relaxed, I’d love to help bring it to life. Get in touch, here!
