Elopement vs. Wedding: What’s Right for You?
So, you’re engaged – congratulations! Whether you’re dreaming of a big party or an intimate moment with just the two of you, you’re probably wondering, “Should we have a wedding or elope?” Both options are equally beautiful, but they each bring very different vibes. Let’s break down the differences of an elopement vs. wedding and see which path feels like your story!
How to Choose between an Elopement vs. Wedding?
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What is Eloping?
When people hear the word “eloping,” they sometimes picture couples sneaking off in secret. But what does it really mean to elope these days? In 2024, eloping is less about secrecy and more about intention. It’s about choosing a meaningful experience without the big wedding production. Maybe that’s hiking to a mountain peak, saying your vows by the ocean, or jetting off to a cozy Airbnb for a weekend filled with love.
Check out this blog to see my top 8 locations in New England to elope!
Eloping is intimate, personal, and—if I’m being honest—one of the most stress-free ways to get married. No huge guest lists, no seating charts, and no need to worry about Aunt Martha’s opinion on the color scheme.
Learn everything that you need to know about eloping in the Acadia National Park, here!
Elopement vs. Wedding
So how do you decide? Elopement vs. wedding is one of the first big choices you’ll make during your planning. Here’s the quick rundown:
Weddings: Traditional weddings are perfect if you want to celebrate with a large group of friends and family. There’s usually a full schedule—ceremony, reception, speeches, dancing—all tied together with everyone you love in one place. You’ll likely have a planner, a venue, caterers, and all the extras that go into a full-day event.
Elopements: Eloping strips away a lot of the extras and focuses on just you two. It’s about doing what
feels right without needing to meet anyone’s expectations. You can have an elopement that’s just as beautiful as a wedding, but with more flexibility. You’re not bound to a traditional timeline, and you can choose a location that speaks to your soul.
Check out this Adirondack Mountain Elopement Timeline!
Why People Choose to Elope
Here’s the thing: weddings are amazing, but they’re not for everyone. After witnessing some really tough moments as an ICU nurse, I’ve learned that life is about meaningful moments, not about perfection. Eloping gives you the chance to focus on your relationship without distractions. It’s for couples who prioritize experience over extravagance!
Maybe the idea of a big wedding gives you anxiety, or maybe you’re both nature lovers who would rather spend your day hiking to a gorgeous view rather than walking down an aisle. Elopements let you create an experience that’s 100% about you two—and that’s something I’ll always be passionate about capturing.
Visit this blog to see a recap of an intimate elopement at Rye Harbor State Park in NH!
Why Have a Wedding?
On the other hand, maybe you’ve dreamed of having your friends and family all together in one place, dancing the night away and celebrating this huge moment in your life. Weddings can be magical in that way—they bring your people together for a once-in-a-lifetime party! You get the grand entrance, the first dance, the toasts, and all the fun that comes with sharing your love with a crowd.
If you thrive on that excitement, a wedding is probably the best fit. Plus, weddings allow you to honor traditions, whether that’s a religious ceremony or certain family customs that mean the world to you.
Elopement vs. Wedding? Do What Feels Right For Your Unique Story
At the end of the day, the elopement vs. wedding decision comes down to what feels right for you as a couple. Ask yourselves these questions to help you decide:
- Do you want to share this moment with a lot of people or keep it intimate?
- Would you rather focus on adventure and personal experiences or enjoy the excitement of a full celebration?
- How important is tradition to you? Do you want a classic wedding, or are you ready to break the mold?
Whatever you decide, the most important thing is that it feels like you. Whether you choose to have a big wedding or elope in the mountains, your day should be a reflection of your love and your story.
And if you’re leaning toward an elopement or a wedding? I’m here for it. Let’s create something unforgettable together!
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